I have been a stay at home mom since Sophie was born in September 2010.  So for the last 3+ years I have put most of my focus and energy into my family and home.  I am by no means complaining because I am fully aware of how lucky I am to be able to stay home with my kiddos.  It’s just very easy to lose yourself in the day to day of being a mom and forget that before you had kids you had interests outside them.